Friday, July 15, 2011

Cavalier

    I keep talking to people who are a little too enthusiastic about putting my dad in a nursing home in the boondocks and getting him a dialysis slot in the middle of town, with an ambulance ride on the freeways three times a week in between. I keep having to ask these people if they've ever ridden in an ambulance. (Answer again and again: No.) Or if they would put their 6'-3" 90-year-old dad in such a situation. Never seem to get an answer to that one.
    It's the farthest thing from funny that with all these people in the caring-for-people business, Autistic Boy seems to be the only person with any empathy or compassion. I made absolutely clear that if he gets a dialysis slot in Blythewood, he goes to Blythewood. If he doesn't, he doesn't. Shouldn't be a problem, but we'll see.

2 comments:

  1. Besides the horror of thrice weekly trips, there's the cost, too. Ambulance rides ain't cheap. You're definitely doing the right thing here.

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  2. Oh no, that's no problem. Everything is covered by Medicare for 100 days, assuming it isn't eliminated by the budget negotiations. At the moment, at least, cost isn't a concern.

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