I suck

    That isn't a statement or even an opinion; just a feeling. I continue quite unhappy with my choice of a nursing home. I feel like I made the same mistake that Dad did with Mom: I chose the pretty-looking place without looking closely at the staff. My next worry is in and out catheterization. They don't seem to be too good at that either. Dad called it primitive. I need to lean on somebody to get him the most skilled nursing available, or yank him the hell out of there. Decisions decisions.